Setting Goals That Light You Up!

Have you ever set a goal only to find yourself uninspired, overwhelmed, or completely disconnected from it a few weeks later? You're not alone. Traditional goal setting often focuses on doing more, achieving faster, and pushing harder. But what if goal setting could feel more aligned, inspired, and even magical?

Here’s the truth: goals that are rooted in your soul—in your values and authentic desires—are the ones that actually stick. These are the goals that spark joy, ignite your passion, and move you forward with purpose.

Let’s dive into a more intuitive and holistic way to set goals that actually works.

✨ Step 1: Connect with Your “Why”

Before setting any goal, ask yourself: Why do I want this? What’s the deeper desire behind the goal? Maybe you want to launch your dream business—not just to make money, but to create freedom, impact, and fulfillment. Tapping into your “why” fuels your motivation and gives your goals meaning.

Try this: Journal about how your goal will make you feel once it's achieved. Let yourself feel that version of you now.

✨Step 2: Align with Your Values

Goals that conflict with your core values can leave you feeling drained or frustrated. So ask yourself: Does this goal reflect who I truly am and what matters most to me?

For example, if you value creativity and freedom, setting rigid goals with no room for exploration may not serve you. But goals that allow you to express yourself and create in your own unique way? That’s where the magic happens.

✨Step 3: Tune into Your Intuition

Your inner wisdom knows the next right step, even when your mind is uncertain. Take a quiet moment to check in. Close your eyes, place your hand on your heart, and ask: What is my next aligned goal?

Sometimes, what you think you want isn’t what your soul is really calling for. Trust what arises. Your intuition will never steer you wrong.

When I'm feeling stuck or conflicted, I'll pull a tarot or oracle card for confirmation that I'm on the right track.

✨Step 4: Get Specific (But Keep It Soulful)

Once you’ve felt into your goal, bring in some structure. Make it specific, measurable, and time-bound—but leave space for flow and inspiration.

For example: some people may feel really good about setting a goal of attending a yoga class twice a week. Others may need a little more incentive, such as: "I’ll go to two yoga classes a week with my best friend, and afterward, we’ll treat ourselves to tea at a new café." Do you feel the difference? The first one is pretty simple and straightforward, whereas, the second one feels fun and expansive.

If it feels boring or heavy, I encourage you to stop because this is a sign that this particular goal is not in alignment with what you really want. If it is a "hell yes", great, write it down! If it is a maybe or I'm not sure, then it is a no for now and can be revisited at a later date.

And if something doesn’t feel good in the moment, maybe it’s just a sign that the goal needs to expand or shift so it feels more aligned. When I first started planning this blog, it felt heavy—I was stuck in the mindset of traditional goal setting. But once I brought in the soul element, everything clicked into place. It felt good, it felt right... and voilà—here it is.

Try this: Anchor your goal in a feeling to give it life and keep it exciting.

✨ Step 5: Break It Down & Celebrate Wins

Who doesn't like to dream BIG?! Those grand visions of how we want to live and show up in the world can be so energizing, yet it is so important to remember every Big dream starts with taking small intentional steps. To make the journey feel more doable and less overwhelming, I encourage you to break your goals into bite-sized actions. Every action you take is moving you one step closer to achieving your goal and living the life of your dreams!

I've found it helpful to take time to celebrate every step forward. It’s so easy to get caught up in the to-do list and overlook just how far you’ve come. Each action you take is evidence that you’re already in the process of bringing your dreams to life. Take a moment to truly honor your progress, because every time you celebrate, you're sending a powerful message to your subconscious that you can do this! The more you acknowledge your wins and affirm that you can, the more unstoppable you will feel—and the journey begins to feel lighter and more aligned.

Remember: Setting Goals that Light You Up Brings Magic

Your dreams are there for a reason. You have everything within you to bring them to life—and you don’t have to do it the old heavy way. Hustle is out. Aligned is in! When you set clear intentions, listen to your heart, and trust your intuition, your goals transform into soul goals—and they guide you toward the life you’re truly meant to live.

🌟 Bonus: A Soul-Aligned Goal Setting Ritual

To set goals that light you up, create a sacred space by lighting a candle, pulling a tarot or oracle card, and ground yourself through breath or meditation. Invite your higher self to join the conversation. This isn't just goal setting—it's co-creation with the Universe.

Ready to set goals that feel aligned—body, mind, and soul?

When your goals come from a place of deep inner clarity, they don’t just motivate you—they inspire you.

Let’s connect for a 1:1 clarity session and take the time to explore where you are and where you want to go. You don’t have to figure it all out alone—we’ll start the journey together. 💫

Hi, I’m Nancy—a certified life coach and intuitive guide based in Raleigh, North Carolina. I’m here to support women who are ready to move closer to their dreams—whether that means starting a soul-based business, calling in a healthy, loving relationship, reinventing themselves from the inside out, or something entirely unique to them.

I walk alongside my clients on their journey to build unshakable confidence and expand their vision of what’s truly possible. Through heart-centered coaching, intuitive guidance, and energy work, I help women take aligned steps toward creating a life they love!

My approach blends practical, mindset-based coaching with intuitive guidance and energy work to support the whole person—mind, body, and spirit. I work with women locally here in the Raleigh area and with clients from all over the world.

In addition to coaching, I offer intuitive guidance sessions (including tarot, oracle, and channeled messages), mentorships, and classes for those seeking clarity, direction, and a deeper connection to their path.

If you’re ready to go from feeling stuck to truly unstoppable—and start creating the life you’ve been dreaming about—I’d love to connect. Visit www.awakenwithnancy.com to learn more or schedule a session.